When Burna Boy sits down for an interview, the internet pays attention. But his recent appearance on The Official UK Afrobeats Chart Show was different. It wasn’t about charts or new drops, it was personal. The Grammy-winning superstar opened up about why, despite his success, he is not ready to start a family yet.
“I’m not ready for that” – Burna keeps it real
During the interview, Burna Boy was asked about fatherhood and whether he’s looking to settle down soon. His answer was simple but revealing: “I don’t want to start a family on the road.” He explained that his current lifestyle, nonstop tours, studio sessions, and globe-trotting performances leave no room for the kind of commitment he believes a family deserves.
“Having a family is my main goal, but it’s not achievable for me right now because I don’t want to do it while constantly on the road,” he said.
He went deeper, giving fans a more emotional take:
“It’s something I want to pursue when I can take a break from music, but I’m not at that point yet, where I can take, say, four years off and be present, go to my children’s school, and do the kind of things my father did for me.”
“My father wasn’t rich, but he was there. Now imagine my kids saying, ‘He was rich, but he wasn’t around.’ I want to give better than I got.”
This honesty struck a chord. Burna didn’t offer a vague PR-safe response. He laid it out as it is.
For someone whose life moves city to city, stage to stage, it’s understandable but still surprising coming from an artist who often keeps his private life sealed.
Fans are listening closely, because the history is there
It’s no secret that Burna Boy’s personal life has sparked public interest for years. From his high-profile, on-and-off relationship with British rapper Stefflon Don to whispers of flings and short-lived romances, his love life has always kept fans curious. Earlier this year, rumors swirled around a link-up with American singer Chloe Bailey, photos, cryptic captions, and enough fuel to get social media talking.
So, when Burna opens up about not being ready to settle down, it naturally stirs conversation. Is it because of his past experiences? The controversies? Or simply because he’s prioritizing music over everything else? Either way, fans are reading between the lines.
No vacation, no anchor, he’s still on the move
In the same conversation, Burna revealed something that says a lot about his mindset: he hasn’t taken a proper vacation since his career took off. No tropical hideaway. No retreat to recharge. Just a non-stop loop of tours, press, studios, and performances.
For most, that would sound exhausting. But for Burna, it’s his rhythm. And without a family or children to slow him down, he’s kept the momentum going. It explains the level of focus he’s maintained in dominating stages across the globe, and why he’s choosing not to add “father” to the list of titles, at least not yet.
People are invested, because this isn’t just about family
Burna Boy’s decision reflects something bigger than just timing. It’s about how he sees himself growing as a man and as an artist. In a culture where artists are often expected to fit into neat boxes, settle down, have kids, and play safe, Burna is once again stepping off the script.
His refusal to rush into fatherhood or present a curated “perfect” lifestyle is part of what makes him unpredictable, and for many fans, authentic. He’s still wild, still fluid, still figuring things out. And that makes him relatable.
@LastLionBreed How many artists in his generation or before have been able to achieve all what he has accomplished in so short a time?!. Since when is having a woman or child the yardstick for success?!. These achievements come at a cost and having a woman or child requires commitment!. If you as a man cannot be committed there’s no need having a wife or child cos that’s what it will take to keep them!
@Iamskununzy Who made the rules that a 33-year-old must have children? So cause una favorite had children outside wedlock, others should follow that? Nigerians will always glorify nonsense.
But at the same time, it also raises eyebrows, especially for those who’ve watched his journey and wonder what comes next. Is there room for love? For legacy beyond music? Those questions linger, and Burna Boy knows that. Maybe that’s why he answered the way he did, carefully but honestly.
He’s not in a rush—but the world’s still watching
For now, Burna Boy’s focus remains clear. With No Sign of Weakness now out, he’s in full rollout mode, headlining major stadiums across Europe and continuing to build momentum with the recent release of “Change Your Mind” featuring Shaboozey.
He’s still in motion, still expanding his reach. And maybe that’s why the idea of starting a family doesn’t quite fit yet, because he’s still deep in the journey, not ready to pause.
